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Take
a minute to think about this. Which is the quickest way to relax your
tired mind and boost your sagging spirits? If your answer is a massage,
then you are dead on target. Undoubtedly, a massage can be a highly soothing
and stimulating activity to rejuvenate you.
Before You Begin:
It is important to create the right atmosphere for massage. It is frustating
for both parties if the mood is broken by interruptions or if the patient
cannot get comfortable enough to relax and enjoy the treatment.
Make sure you have all the props and equipment you will need before
you begin.
- A massage table (if you have one), or foam mattress placed on the
floor.
- Two nice fluffy towels. One for the bed or floor or massage table
and one to cover your partner during the massage.
- Candles to set a nice mood.
- Aromatherapy oil.
- Soothing music to help the person you are masssaging relax.
Creating The Right Atmosphere
Creating an environment conductive to relaxation is a primary factor
in successful massage experience.
Pointers: To Help You Get Started
- Set the scene - warm and comfortable, with cushions, subdued lighting
and soft music.
- Get some flowers with a strong scent such as roses, lilies or narcissi.
Be extravagant and scatter rose petals across your room or bed.
- It is important that you keep outside noises such as traffic, telephone
or even children screaming, at bay.
- Warm the room, which must be well ventilated if you are using essential
oils, but do not massage in a direct draught.
- It is important to make your partner feel comfortable, so cover your
massage partner with a towel, exposing only the area you are massaging.
Using Massage Oils
If
you are adding essential oils, prepare your blend, checking any particular
likes or dislikes, because smells have strong associations. Do not blend
more than three essential oils because chemical reactions take place with
the plants' properties. Have a look at Essential
Oil Blending
General Tips
- Wear loose, comfortable clothing to give the massage, so that your
movements do not get hampered.
- Remove any jewellery from your hands and wrists.
- Make sure you have clean hands and short nails.
When You Are Applying Massage
- Keep the strokes light to stimulate the body's natural internal responses,
and do not apply strokes with weighted pressure that may damage body
tissues, fibres and blood flow.
- Get connected: Never leave your partner without your touch. Leave
one hand or fingertip on your partner's body so that the momentum is
never broken.
- Try to avoid chat with your massage partner during the massage session
but do ask for regular feedbacks - ask if the pressure you are applying
feels good.
- When massaging different parts of the body keep the areas not being
worked on covered with a large towel or blanket. This will help keep
your partner from getting chilled.
- Try not to lean on your partner with one hand while massaging with
the other.
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